Originally Posted by Ginger1
I am not saying this is you, but I lived with an H who never heard me, disregarded everything I said and every feeling I ever had, and sometimes called them stupid. So to even ask my exH for an ounce of something took all my courage and willpower. And I never ever would dream about trying again when I got turned down or insulted.

That hits pretty close to home.

And it's why I worry that taking the WW "tough love" approach that I started doing in September made it worse.

Last edited by burned; 01/04/19 05:34 PM.

H: 35 W: 33
M: 11 T: 13

4/10/18: I discovered A and confronted ("BD1")
6/23/18: I moved out
8/31/18: MC ends ("BD2")