Originally Posted by TJT
I'm interested to see what differences there may be (if any) between temp checks from H's and those from W's.


I think this is mostly a personality type thing. Its seems I see on here a lot more WWs than WHs doing temp checks. But in my sitch, that's not the case as I haven't had a single temp check from W. I think it's just different, and I don't/wouldn't put too much stock in if it "means" anything.

I think it also has to do with the persuit/distance dynamic (this thread). Many times women are the persuers, but certainly not always. My W is not, she would lean more towards a distancer.

At least it's easier on us to not have a rollercoaster if they don't temp check. I'll take that as a benefit.