“I’m not giving you a cent more.” “See, you never cared about my needs. You’re a controlling a-hole.”
Option 2: "I'm giving you exactly what you asked for." "See, you never cared about my needs. If you cared you would be more generous. You're a controlling a-hole."
Option 3: "Take it all, here's my checkbook, help yourself." "See, you never cared about my needs. If you cared you would be working 4 jobs so you could pay for my breast augmentation, lip injections and trip to Tahiti with OM. You're a controlling a-hole."
You see what I'm getting at here? Her mindset right now is you are wrong and an a-hole NO MATTER WHAT YOU DO. You can't measure your success on her positive affirmations, because you will have a 0.00% success rate.
OMG, you nailed it right here. This is something I'm going to keep in the front of my mind moving forward!
M: 34 W:34 D:7 D:6 S:3
M: 9.5 years T: 12
OM found & BD (by me): 9/19/18 IHS begins W informs me she's moving out: 11/28/18 W files: 12/21/18 D Final: 2/25/19
