Originally Posted by FlySolo
Hi Harvey

Happy new year to you and yours. Love love love the manifesto.

No. 5 relationships really resonated with me. I too managed to avoid the big things but let the little things slide. So, I am adding a little something ... notice and appreciate the little kindnesses and efforts our other halves put in (when we have other halves) and in return do little things back - a phone call when they're away to say u miss them, putting aside time for them, really listening when they speak ... just generally being more thoughtful.

I will say again what I said back when you were spinning ... you are awesome.

FS


Thank you, FS! The bottom line is that I took my marriage for granted, and I also stopped making myself attractive in a lot of ways. All I can do now is live and learn.