Thank you R2C there is a lot to absorb there, I am still reading.

Last night W brought up telling the kids within the next few weeks, I said I would need to think about that as we have no set plan moving forward yet. She wants to tell them so she can then tell her family and basically get the word out that D is happening.

W also wants to get moving on deciding who keeps the house and division of assets, and wants to mediate instead of lawyering up. I told her I am not ready to do so at this time as I have to evaluate what is best for the kids and my own financial future and life.

Any input on these subjects would be great thank you!


H: 55 W:43
M: 8 T:12
S(11) D(8)
BD: 10/18 (ILYBINILWY)
IHS: 1/19
Physical Separation: 8/19
D FINAL: 6/21
W filed D: 4/19
Physical Separation 8/19