I confronted her and handed her back her little budget. It got a little heated but not too bad. Remember she was feverous and bedridden.
Yes she was, and I'm wondering why in the world you decided that was a good time to confront her! I think it's in DR but Michele talks about dispute resolution in one of her books, and discusses good times versus bad times to bring up potentially volatile issues. You know your W's mood cycles. Like maybe she's a morning person. Or maybe she hates mornings but is very mellow in the afternoons. Whatever it is, you already know good times versus bad times to have those convos, use that knowledge. But definitely don't hit her with that stuff when she's sick, wait until she's feeling better.
