LBS dealing with WW (part 6)

[Joe2017]

Nah I'm not punishing her. I just have rules she has to follow due to trust issues. But every time I talk about what I need for building trust it makes her feel guilty and she gets upset because she said she feels guilty every day already, and this has been going on for weeks.

She says she never wants to hurt me again. But I have heard that before...
She says she loves me and she's in love with me. But I have heard that before...
She said there's nothing more important to her than me. But I have heard that before...
She said she will never cheat on me (again). But I have heard that before...

I'd hate to traumatize my kid again by involving her in our lives and having our trust violated a second time.

This is probably going to hurt. Lol.

Edits:
I just wanted to thank everyone for their input and opinions. You've all given me a lot of great insights.