She has not stopped giving me everything I ask for, but I can tell she is getting tired of all of my demands. To be fair, it has been pretty harsh for her over the past couple weeks because I have been making her painfully aware of the reality of what her actions caused during her A.
I was reading your response in another thread where you were talking about how she has forgotten so much of what she said and did. The reality is probably that she caused much more harm than she remembers (or wants to remember). Separation and divorce was on her timeline, but recon is on YOUR timeline. If recon is that important to her then she will give you the time to work through these things. If she's impatient about it well that is not a good sign because it's that same old "give me what I want and give it to me now" WAS mindset at work. Take your time to process this stuff, there's no rush.
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I need to take a step back and re-evaluate what I am doing and why I am doing it. Recon might be the wrong thing to do. I am alright with ending this if it is the best course of action.
Good, that is a great mindset to have in this. You have options, you are in the driver's seat. Let her sweat it out a bit, there is no reason to rush back into anything.
