Just keep swimming, I think I can, I think I can #

[peacetoday]

keep expectations low at 0
they will have touch and gos
the crises will last 2-7 years
with 2 being rare

I sense she is scared to lose you especially because she sees you changing and growing stronger and more confident
and she knows you let her go and you can easily move on at any point

so stick with your agenda-
keep moving forward
let her crack...maybe she will give up the kids and allow you to have full custody of all 3

support her when appropriate and let go
let her initiate