Keep working to let go of things you cannot control. It will come.
I most definitely encourage you to seek legal counsel. All you need do is gather information, you need not act on it. You will feel better knowing where you stand, it alleviates the fears surrounding the unknown of all this. It is best to be prepared, you don’t want to be scrambling with a 20 day deadline over head.
Hmmm. Work out at boot camp. Way to go!
DnJ
Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.