two steps forward, three steps back (burned)

[burned]

W texted to ask when I'll transfer the money. I said as soon as the D is final. She pulled out her boundaries script, "That doesn't work for me." I said it's a division of property and I'm not making the transfer until the divorce decree is signed (not using that many words, of course, but that makes it easier to understand). She got all huffy and said some nonsense about alimony and taxes that I know is wrong because I did the research and figured it out. There was a little more back and forth, very short responses from me. Then she says "Well if it's going to be transferred anyway, what difference does it make?" Rather than parroting back the exact same question (because I do want to know), I just went on with my day.

So now she's all angry because I didn't do what she wants me to do. *Yawn.* Not once did she use the words "file" or "divorce" or whatever. And I did not relent.

1. I feel a bizarre sense of strength and calm. I like it.

LOL! Man these WAS's and their crazy talk. I responded by going to work out.

2. What is her angle? Someone please explain this to me because it makes no sense. She wants everything except the divorce. What other cake can she eat? Is it not clear to her that the M is over?