Wife in MLC, I think

[LB55]

Well her I sit in the airport waiting for my flight to my duty station. Haven't seen my W since nov 19th. I am starting to recognize things about my M that I was blind to while in it. My sister has pointed out some things too, and perhaps it wasn't as happy and rosy as I thought it was. I don't hate my W, I am not even angry with her, just frustrated that she won't be direct and tell me what is going on. Instead she wastes tons on money on a L to ask me via my L if it is ok to hire a plumber to fix the shower drain. I don't care, but why waste everyone's time and our money, just text me and I am fine with it. Oh well.

She did have the kids call me on Tuesday per the new temp agreement, but she had her friend over that is pushing for D, and her kids, so of course mine were distracted and didn't have much to say. On speakerphone and walnut int to go play, so I talked for a few mins to each, and let them go have their fun. I just want them to know I haven't abandoned them, and when this is all done I will still be there.

Have a lot of work to do in the next couple weeks, working on my response to her declaration, getting proof of things she lied about, going to see my counselor, getting medical tests done to prove I am not a drunk, statements from those who know us well but aren't aware of her shenanigans yet, and get a nice little packet together to show the court some truths about all the lies she used to get a restraining order. Trying to be proactive, would not be expected by her and her L.

I hope she is enjoying her $900 security system to watch the mice and birds. Also her $800 curtains so nobody can see in on what she is doing. Lord knows I haven't gone anywhere near there, but the bank statements and kids talking about helping put the up make it easy to use put 2and 2 together.

She is not going to be happy when the mid month paycheck doesn't show up. Changed my bank accounts and mailing addresses among other things, she doesn't get those nice benefits anymore. I will give her the proper amount for child support, and that is it. I don't want my credit ruined, so I will ensure the mortgages get paid. All the bills are in her name anyway.

Once I have my hearing on the 1st of Feb I will start looking for a place to live. Don't want to start that process prematurely, as I would love nothing more than for the court to say she can move out. Probably won't happen, realistically. I do need to know if I need rooms for the kids at my new place, hard to argue for them to spend nights at my place if I have a studio apt.

Trying to find some meet ups that I can join once I get moved to work on GAL.