It's way easier to give up and give in to what's comfortable for us. The problem is when that normalcy involves the factors that brought us to the place where we found ourselves to be broken.
180s can involve lots of determination, depending on what they are. Sometimes they are simple, like dressing better or cleaning up more. But sometimes they are complex, like learning constructive ways to deal with anger.
It's so easy to take the position that an old dog can't learn new tricks, and the world should love me just the way I am.
Sometimes the way we are is the reason for the treason. It's often hard to accept deep flaws, make meaningful changes, and move on. Some people give up and give in, because changing was too hard.
Save yourself. Nobody is coming! BD:11/2017 Filed:12/2017 Final: 2/2018