Taken from burned's thread, but it applies to me too:
Originally Posted by Vapo
Trying to hook up with other people while you are still collecting pieces of yourself off the floor is a very bad idea. I know it sounds appealing, but it is WRONG. You cannot attract quality people in your life when you are in the state you are in. Broken attracts broken.
As for casual sex thingy. Really? You'd mess with women so you could bed them? What, like go on revenge binge? Bed 'em al, married or not, just jump at any one showing a slight hint of interest?
You guys are REALLY broken... And you do not even realize it.
I remember having a meltdown a while ago in which I expressed THE EXACT SAME FEELINGS. Though the 2x4s I got were not quite as hard as this one, it did make me reconsider and allowed me to pull back.
That being said, Vapo nails it. Especially at the last part. I'm still piecing myself, but I am for the most part, still broken.
