[BrightFuture]

Job, thank you for replying! I know I can always count on you. You gave me a lot of great advice over these years. I know I was “difficult” and confrontational at time, but you still came back to comment on my posts. Happy New Year to you too!

Last summer I went to Croatia and Prague. We were on a yacht for the first week in Croatia and then travelled to other parts and ended up in Prague. What a beautiful city! And the other adventures were awesome! I loved Croatia, and I would go there again!

My son is doing well, thanks for asking! He is still with his GF of 12 years and I hope they get married one day… My son tuned 30 last year. From a rebellious teenager a number of years ago (who gave me a lot of grey hair…), he turned into a very smart, kind and caring man. I’m so proud of him! He tries to take care of me. I’m a very independent person, but I allow him to do little things for me. It feels great.

Yes, my new friends have no attachment to my affairs with H, they take it as it is. I also “trained” some of my old friends, LOL. I don’t bring H up and steer all conversations away when it gets too uncomfortable for me. They still don’t understand all the “business” we have with H… but they now accept it.

I was kind of surprised myself, when I heard that H was going to come to my family’s NY party. I think I didn’t believe it until he showed up with his brother, LOL. It was all good until I saw the pictures from the party… To my opinion, H looked sad… He tried to be cheerful and all, but I could tell there was something going on. Honestly… I feel sorry for him. I wish he would be happier. I’m surprised I cared so much for him to be happy.

And, you are right, he probably felt that people don’t have grudges for him. My family was so happy to see him. I’m sure I will hear some details and opinions from my sister and her H, since they talked to my H for the most of the night.

Thanks again for your reply!