Uncertain of What I Have (Thread 3)

[Ready2Change]

Any other thoughts?

My initial thought was to avoid R talk like the plague. Then I decided to ask you if you can handle it.


You need to evaluate and then decide if you confront your fear or avoid R talk.


You do have an option to make other plans. Massage, shopping, whatever (DO NOT TELL HER)

Sunday, go do your thing. If she calls, let it go to VM. If she text, respond:

H:"Something important came up that I am dealing with."

W:"What is it"

H:"Nothing you need to worry about."

You can also make the meeting short:

H:"Sorry I am running late, but I am almost there. Something important just came up that I need to deal with, so we need to make this quick."