26 and trying to save a marriage

[Joe2017]

GFT:
This may piss some DBers off, but I suggest that you divorce your wife and never get into any other situation with another woman who is committed to another man again (married or not).

All that stuff about getting cheated on? Chalk it up to karma. Take it like an adult, and move on with your life. Get in to see a counselor to help your healing.

That is as complex as your situation needs to be. It [censored], but she's broken and you already stated that you're done with her. If you really mean it, then you know what you have to do.