LBS dealing with WW (part 6)

[Joe2017]

GFT:
No, she never cheated before we married. She did cheat on OM though.

Phoenix & burned:
Thank you for the suggestions. I wonder if I am really healed from the hurt. It mostly does not bother me. My main issue here is not the hurt from being betrayed, although that does feel bad at times if I think about it. What I'm having a hard time with is believing that XW is a changed person. I 100% believe she is remorseful. She has never made anything about her since she came back. It has all been focused on my needs and those of our kids.

Part of me is looking at this as a marriage again, which is an inaccurate approach. The other part of me keeps reminding me that it's not nearly that serious and we are only dating right now.

XW said her goal is to marry me again someday, but I do not feel pressured to remarry.

She has said all of the right things. ALL of the right things! I think my difficulty is having faith.