Hi
Job , One Art, Marina ,Gordie Gerda and Kate
Thanks for your responses

I think you all hit it from every possible angle for me and I appreciate your feedback


I think I am letting this go-
I do believe she is under the influence of something and I sense
she was needing to apologize for her part
and at the same time grasp for answers to try to fix her mess, which I obviously cant do and would not want to
I feel so far away from this chaos and my life is really good without them-

and yes for the new person it does show what the MLCer's new fantasy life becomes down the road-
and the kind of person their affair partner really is-

I will energetically send her forgiveness and good wishes
hoping that both she and XH find their way to Healing God and peace

xoxo


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow