You detached abruptly and strongly, less than a year ago. By the way you’ve been posting lately I’d say you still need a lot of time to heal.

Sounds like she’s willing to give you that time. Can you heal alongside her, or do you need to ask her to back off? Doesn’t sound like she’s in a hurry to get remarried, so...gift of time?

Remember what they tell us newbies: emotions change.


H: 35 W: 33
M: 11 T: 13

4/10/18: I discovered A and confronted ("BD1")
6/23/18: I moved out
8/31/18: MC ends ("BD2")