Yes, you're being soft on her.

You moved out, paid the bills for her while she slept with someone else, brought up OM and didn't say "F you, that's wrong". Nothing has changed for your W. So it's all hunky dory.


H 34
W 29
BD 3/12/18
Divorce Busted Spring 19

It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.