Originally Posted by Joe2017
The 5 LLs are for couples to interface with each other better. Are you and your W a couple?

When I moved out the OM had free reign of my MH. I'm not sure of the GGW status of my XW at the time. She swears she was only with 2 other men including OM.

My XW BDed and filed basically within the same week. It was very fast.

You have to enforce your boundaries. Just stating them is not enough to protect you. You can't just draw a line down the road. You have to build a median.


Are my boundaries even enough though? With IHS I literally can only have the boundary of no contact and me not helping.

That does nothing to stop her from seeing OM.

I have a friend that asked who OM was, in trying to find OM on SM he sent me pictures of the accounts. OM has since changed his profile picture to that of him with his W and two grand children.

OM is playing my wife like a fiddle.


M:16
T:21
H(me) 38
WW: 38
S11 D16 D19
Red Flags of A: March 2018
ILYBNILWY: August 4, 2018
Moved out of MBR: September 24, 2018
BD/Confirmation of A: October 31, 2018
D Filed: March 27, 2019