We're not divorce or even have started the process. I'm not being soft on her, I guess I just realize this is who she was and I saw all these red flags and didn't do anything about it. I realize this was in her from the start, maybe as long as I pleased her emotionally and she was content she wouldn't leave but as soon as things became hard this is what she was going to do. She didn't have it in her to fix our marriage, her solution was always going to be to leave for OM.
Does the fact that her mom had 6 kids from 3 different fathers and was never married maybe an explanation of why her behavior is like this?
She once told me that they were(her siblings & mother) living at her uncles house and that he kicked them all because her mom took a strange man to the home.
This is the type of role model she had. I'm not justifying her behavior, I just want to move on and learn.
