A former WW/AP story. (True Story)

[Manta]

Great post. I've seen affairs. And while I know of a couple of instances where the APs married and lived happily ever after, as you point out the vast majority of affairs end badly for one or both APs. The majority of affairs involve two married people and one of the two is usually unwilling, for a variety of reasons, to leave their marriage.

Another anti-D expert is fond of saying "A plant planted in rotten soil will rarely survive, sprout and thrive."

True Steve. I think especially where an affair is born out of two people cheating on their partners, then the big white elephant in the room will always be " Well, don't mention the whole cheating thing for now .....but you wouldn't cheat on me right!?"

It's sad knowing that those who jump into these very selfish decision's, don't realize the very small chance that their affair wont make it. The convince themselves they're soulmates etc. But 9/10, it's just bull and brain chemicals gone crazy. They usually end one way or the other.