Thanks Sandi....I wondered about that. Thanks for clarification.
New Question: I had reached out to a different relationship counselor based on a friends recommendation...one that deals specifically with infidelity. This site helped me realize that traditional MCing doesn't mean cr@p as long as the affair continues. So the counselor responded with:
" Thanks for reaching out! If she hasn't ended the affair, you can't begin to heal from it. It sounds like you both may be more suitable for Discernment Counseling. More information about that service can be found here..."
Anyone with experience in Discernment Counseling???