The 5 LLs are for couples to interface with each other better. Are you and your W a couple?
When I moved out the OM had free reign of my MH. I'm not sure of the GGW status of my XW at the time. She swears she was only with 2 other men including OM.
My XW BDed and filed basically within the same week. It was very fast.
You have to enforce your boundaries. Just stating them is not enough to protect you. You can't just draw a line down the road. You have to build a median.
Save yourself. Nobody is coming! BD:11/2017 Filed:12/2017 Final: 2/2018