Next step, if she texts you that you are being hateful after you just helped her just ignore it.
You're sending mixed signals because you said this:
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I told WW that as long as she is actively disrespecting me and headed down this path, I am unavailable to her.
but you just helped her move the car in.
So she knows that's what you're thinking, now don't tell her again, just show her. And do it kindly, no need to be rude even though she is wanting you to be rude.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.