IHS was the hardest thing I did during the D. You have to really put the AS IF mindset into full action and always treat your spouse like the store clerk. Polite, to the point, but not friends.
Boundaries included types of interactions, topics of discussion, and showing me disrespect. The consequences were leaving the room and going NC.
It is HARD to maintain. Extremely hard. I wish I could tell you that it gets easier but it didn't in my sitch.
Save yourself. Nobody is coming! BD:11/2017 Filed:12/2017 Final: 2/2018
