Gerda

I agree with DNJ and Coly

Reading your exchange about the car

Gerda pays all the costs

It is her car

H should be asking Gerda on when he can borrow it

I know Gerda is not rude

But I might try and get that point across

And maybe offer to buy him out of his share

Not the other way around

Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids
2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong
2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2
2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving