I never for a second felt guilty for keeping my kids away from XH and OW
Had I not been vigilant in this area, my kids could be seriously damages-or different than they are now right now at 17 and 23- they are humans but good people with goals and direction and self esteem they voulunteer ect-
They never met OW and I am grateful that
Due to MLC, we do not have typical D or cases ours are extreme as our spouses usually go crazy- We haver to judge what is best for our kids
I would do whatever is in your power to keep the kids away from her new OM or lifestyle unless you see her as moving in the right direction-with healthier people
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow