Happy New year all.
2019 is going to be a fabulous year!

I get on face book last night and there were several messages from the OW (wife) to me
from October on
I didn't see them because she is not a freind

I guess they are still M or back together

NO contact from XH

She is a mess, basically asking me how to get rid of him
wanting to send him back
Saying how he has ruined her life
saying how he told her I was the problem , but now she can clearly see its him

she is 37 and says they met at 23 and she was too young to know better
at 23 she had been D with a 7 year old already(who she abandoned at that time)
apologizing for her part in this

She cant write full sentences, terrible grammar sentences missing noun or verb
asking if her daughter now 20, can write to my D 23
she is absolutely nuts

I deleted the messages
she wrote since October and into November

NOthing from XH (thankful for that)

Im so glad they are far away
I of course will not respond and see if I can block her from any future contact

Job
What is her need to contact me?


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow