Bright,

I am so glad you returned w/an update. Your life has taken off and you are now exploring the world! Good for you! So, tell me, where did you go on your vacation?

I think you are very wise to have new friends, friends who do not question your decisions about a divorce, etc. People do not understand what we go through and won't until they have walked a mile in our shoes.

I think your h is starting to grow up and is warming up again to you being in his life more frequently. He's not avoiding you at the condo any longer and yes, he sees a strong and independent woman who got on w/her life. You've left the door open...but you continued to move forward and he sees this each and every time he speaks to you or hears from his brother.

I was surprised that your h finally ventured forth and attended your family's New Year's Eve Party...but that's good. He should now realize that people do not hold grudges for what he did and they all can treat him in a kind way.

So, how is your son doing?

Bright, I'm so proud of you!

Happy New Year!


Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.