Adam, when your W had that talk with you (while you were still in bed), what could you determine about her attitude during that talk? Did she show a range of emotions, or was it mostly one?
Do you know if she still contacts OM?
Hi Sandi! Hope you are having a great start to the New Year, and Thank You for your never-ending support. You're an amazing and wonderful person. I am thankful for all the time you've taken to try and make me see the light.
I could not determine much. I have a gut feeling that she is confused and also wants the best of both worlds.
She had one emotion,somewhat somber, throughout the talk. She was calm, taking time to talk, sometimes sitting there quietly, not rushing. She cried a little sometimes. No balling, no anger raising her voice. We made eye contact a lot. Sometimes there wasn't eye contact, she'd look at me and then look down.
I have no idea about OM. I think she went deep undercover.
This New Years we had the kids together in the living room during the last minute count down. I was in the study until 11:58. After we hugged the kids and told them Happy New Year, I said I will miss them after the older one left the room. Told her I found an apartment but we may need to discuss the 50/50. I most likely can't do the 50/50 due to the new location will add substantial drive time to my work. Won't have time to pick up the kids before 6pm.
H 49 , W 47 T 23, M 17 S11, S5 BD: 7/18 IHS: 7/18 - 3/19 Physically Separated: 3/19-4/19 Piecing: 4/19 - Current
