FS, I went through a similar process too. I just think that our personal growth is one thing and our relationship is another. If people needed to fix all their flaws and become whole before falling in love, it will be the end of marriages as we know it because being flawed is part of our humanity. We should be able to accept that about ourselves and our S. And grow together within the M.


Me:49 XW:41, M:18 years, Kids: S18,S14
BD:JULY 2017, W moved out: DEC 2017
Filed for D: APR 2019, D Final: JULY 2019