26 and trying to save a marriage

[joejoe1]

GTF,

No one on here will be able to answer your questions (give you logic) about why your WW has done what she has done and with who. Because there's no logic.

If you and her are not together, you should stop questioning her. She doesn't owe you anything. And your questioning her is very unattractive.

You comparing yourself and your accolades might be one of the reasons your WW is with a younger man. She might feel inadequate being with you. (A little logic, maybe)

You need to heal, you need to work on letting your W go down her own path, you are not her conductor. Also, why she chose him, and why she's doing what she is doing, she probably won't be able to explain it, so it's no way any of us can.

From what you are explaining she's in looney ville, please stay out of that town.

Onward and forward