Surrendering to grace...

[kiro]

FS, I agree but we shouldn’t dismiss that there are true values in having a loving companion and a stable M. We should use this time to rediscover ourselves but let’s not fool ourselves. Most people are happier and more fulfilled with a loving partner than being alone (human nature). We just have to give up the illusion that no one other our current S can fill this role. And Yes we should be comfortable alone and not put all our eggs in one basket. We should have other interests in life other than spending time with our partner.