Okay well after reading the forum rules again I decided to not paste all the quotes I've been saving, just to be safe. I may do a few here and there as they are appropriate though.
I will recommend Brene Brown's "Rising Strong" book for all of us here. It is NOT a book focused on divorce so I hope it is not seen as "competition" to MWD and I am not banned for breaking rules.
H:39 W:30 M:4 T:9
05/2018: H says "ILYBNILWY", BD 07/2018: Discovered A, confronted 09/2018: PA + other details emerge; H moved out 12/2018: I filed 03/2019: Divorce finalized