Finding the Balance then Tipping the Scale (TWO)

[joejoe1]

A,

Your list is too generic. You need very specific observables.

Example, when it comes to physical: her touching you umprompted. Her laughing at your jokes. Her calling and texting you for simple and small things on a consistent basis. Her giving you a kiss. Her going out of her way to say goodbye or hello.

Example, when it comes to emotions: her telling you about her day umprompted. Her telling you about a girlfriend of family that got on her nerves. Her telling you about a new anything she's thinking about buying. Her opening up about the M or R. Her telling you about her mental state or emotions.

Example, when it comes to spiritual: her telling you she is praying for you and the M. Her telling she has be talking to a Pastor or religious leader. Her asking you to go to Church.

You are looking for signs of resentment subsiding.

Her admitting to her affair should be one of your signs. She can do that while she's agry as well.

What you ultimately want is remorse. Her deep sadness for hurting you and overwhelming guilt for her conduct.

You are doing great.

I have my list at home written down. I will type them out to you later.

Happy New Years!!!! Here's too 2019.

Onward and Forward