Dealing with a WW and trying to save myself pt. 4

[SoTorn]

Journaling

Today was a good day at work. I finished my projects that needed to get done by today. I finished all of my process documentation and publication that I said I would, even with a few minor setbacks.

I start school Wednesday. I am getting my BS in Project Management online and 100% paid for by work.

I have set my self a financial plan which I will be implementing very shortly and set a date to move out of my house. The only thing that would stop me from moving out is if I can qualify for my home once I get my financial plan in place and WW moves out instead.

My legal benefits kick in tomorrow. I get free attorney services through my work so I will be retaining an L and asking that they draft up a custody agreement for 50/50 custody with a decree that when I move out my WW will have 90 days to remove me from the mortgage and pay me my part of the equity.

I have already found a condo that I would be happy to live in. The condo is a bit expensive but it is what it is. When I execute my financial plan I will be able to easily afford it.

Further goals are that once I am moved out after my financial plan has been executed I will start taking advantage of our stock purchase plan here at work. I get to set aside 15% of my income to purchase stocks. I then get a 25% discount on stocks and on top of that I get to purchase the stocks at the lowest price for the session.

I get a raise in February and I also get a bonus in February. I will be filing my taxes this year as married filing separately, so that can wait until I get my bonus because I am sure that I will owe. I think my WW wants to file married filing jointly, but thats not going to happen.

I will be doing all of this while awaiting the mostly inevitable D that my WW said she was going to file for. Even though WW told me that we need to prepare to pay the taxes on the house in April 2019. So somewhere in her whirlwind of a mind and thoughts she at least thought at one point that we will both be living in the same home in April 2019.

DB is so counter intuitive. My brain is shouting "go show WW you love her and care for her and will do anything to get her back". But I know I can't do that. So I force my brain to say "You will be fine alone, take care of yourself and your kids, stick to your plans, stick to your guns, be nice and cordial to WW but thats it".