They did these things to us because THEY WANTED to. That's one of the hardest parts to accept. They made the decision to hurt us in a way that nobody else in the entire world EVER could.
Another hijack maybe, but Joe, that thought process is something I've been working on REALLY HARD in IC and just with myself. If she comes back, I'll need to remember that she was doing what she felt was right at the time. If she doesn't, I'll have to let go of the idea that another person's actions are always chosen based on how they won't or won't affect me. Vapo kindly called me out about that using the term "egocentric." When we're hurt, it's impossible not to be. But in the process of healing it's something that we are probably better off letting go.
Just because vicariously I really want to see you be successful.
You too, TJT.
Edit. Donkey kicks sounds like the most jankity of all exercises. Did I use the term correctly? :P
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4/10/18: I discovered A and confronted ("BD1") 6/23/18: I moved out 8/31/18: MC ends ("BD2")
