I’m going to reply to you both later but wanted you to know I read your posts just now. You guys are amazing and I’m glad I have this forum at least to know people like you exist!

Right now... I’m trying to do a little shopping with gift card money from my mom. Not totally into it but I realized I should get out. And before I go home I’m going to order from my fav Mexican restaurant to go, so there. If only I could get the margaritas to go! Not to worry, there’s Patron in the freezer. Whiccccccch I know I should not drink so I probably won’t anyway. Sad.

Joe, real quick I do take the dog for many more walks than I used to and I started yoga with this sitch but haven’t gone since the holidays started. I also used to run but stopped because knees don’t like it. Kickboxing is my fav but I got a shoulder issue doing it that I’m working on resolving bc I miss it terribly. So for now... walks, yoga, light dumbbells and donkey kicks! Agreeably I need to do a LOT more there.

Also I plan to re-summarize my sitch later given everything that’s occurred since it started. Will make it easier for those of you who are new to it vs trying to read all my super long posts.


H:39 W:30
M:4 T:9

05/2018: H says "ILYBNILWY", BD
07/2018: Discovered A, confronted
09/2018: PA + other details emerge; H moved out
12/2018: I filed
03/2019: Divorce finalized