Milestones of Moving On (?)

[Joe2017]

Of course it matters, but not in the way we think of when we're going through it. We think that if we leave no stone unturned, if we analyze and examine every detail, if we figure out what went WRONG we could somehow fix things. But that's just not the case. We can't do that because we have no control over our spouses. They did these things to us because THEY WANTED to. That's one of the hardest parts to accept. They made the decision to hurt us in a way that nobody else in the entire world EVER could.

So how does it matter? It matters now within the context of self development. We only have ourselves right now. It matters because it's part of your history that is making you a stronger woman in the future.

You are regressing a little. That's OK. Pick back up tomorrow. Today you can take in all the feels. Let yourself experience sadness today, but tomorrow push onwards. Don't wallow for too long!

If you don't work out right now, I highly suggest it. HIGHLY. Doesn't matter if it's the gym, a kickboxing class, yoga, running, a boot camp, or karate. Hell, go for LONG ASS WALKS. Whatever! Physical activity is extremely important for you right now. Strongly recommended!!!!!!

Thumbs up! Keep pushing forward.