Originally Posted by Joe2017
I have my guard up so high and I don’t know if I can let it down.



Joe, this quote struck a note with me. This is something that seeing a MC can help with.

I think it's a great idea to write it down, and later, months later perhaps, decide then whether you want to share it with her.

Originally Posted by Joe2017
BI’ve been so focused on making her prove herself that maybe I haven’t given her enough credit for the things she actually HAS done..


I think you would be well served by this.

And you are in completely new territory. It's ok to be unsure. Take it slow. Take it easy.


M:23 T:26
Me:53, Wife: 60
S:18
D:16
filed 7/16
W moved out 4/28/17