LBS dealing with WW (part 6)

[Joe2017]

Burned,

Thank you!!! You are right, I need to differentiate the reasons why I engage in the conversations with her that I do. We have already established that she can’t explain why she had an A with a literal idiot. I will never get an explanation because IT DOES NOT EXIST. Those conversations are a waste of time and hurt more than help.

I need to help make our new relationship the best that it can be if we are going to have a real chance at this. There is no timeline, and there is no rush. XW has continually said she will wait for me, and she is never going to leave no matter how long it takes for me to trust her again. Maybe I should concede some here, and allow a LITTLE bit of faith back into our relationship. I’ve been so focused on making her prove herself that maybe I haven’t given her enough credit for the things she actually HAS done.

This is all really really new to me. This is the only ex that I have ever had a second relationship with, and it’s certainly the only ex-wife I’ve ever tried this with.

OK... Faith. Let’s see where this takes us.