Originally Posted by LH19
I am concerned that by the time you get strong enough, too much damage will have been done and it will be too late.

DC, you’ve got some really good guidance very early in your sitch, or at least early in your attempts to influence the outcome. You’ve probably read some of my stuff, so I can tell you from firsthand experience what LH means by “strong enough.” Not sure how I feel about the “too late” part. Too late to save the M, as-is? Maybe? Possibly not too late to recon later? Not sure. (Curious to hear more from Nostradamus.) But look at Joe2017 and how quickly he got strong, maybe that’s why he got a chance for recon within a year.

I’m also curious to see how the IHS vs. physical S plays out. I hear people say that IHS is difficult and physical S is “better” in a sense. I didn’t have a choice in the matter but I’m starting to feel the benefits of physical S after many months. I imagine it would be a very hard choice to make if I had to make it myself.

So, hang in there, buddy. Show us how a real man handles himself.


H: 35 W: 33
M: 11 T: 13

4/10/18: I discovered A and confronted ("BD1")
6/23/18: I moved out
8/31/18: MC ends ("BD2")