Finding the Balance then Tipping the Scale (TWO)

[burned]

Hey Adam,

I like the positive changes, if that’s what they are. But let me be the devil’s advocate.

“I still love you,” “Let’s be friends,” “I can see your changes,” “I’m sorry I hurt you.” My W said those things WHILE she was still with OM. I mean, while I was CERTAIN that he was still in her life.

Take it all with a gigantic grain of salt. Don’t deny positive changes; accept them for what they are. But consider this fine quote from Marcus Aurelius, Roman emperor and Stoic philosopher:

“The art of living is more like wrestling than dancing, in as much as it, too, demands a firm and watchful stance against any unexpected onset.”

(Consistent, positive changes over a long time...)