LH - Thanks as always for the words! As for as IHS goes...I agree. I'm not 100% confident in myself yet. I do feel I could back up the boundary of not sharing the bed going forward. Is that worth it for a start...or should I wait until I feel more confident?? And if so, is it best to put it to here like you said..."I will no longer share a bed with a cheater". Or is that too harsh language?
I must be completely misunderstanding validation. I will go back and read that thread again. I have never understood the point of it....and your comment about not validating a WW just make sense. When is the right time for validation?
