Your W does sound like she is a mess, and the honeymoon stage is probably winding down and gasping it’s last breath.
I wonder how bad it actually is, I am thinking it is pretty bad. The MLCer usually projects themselves to be in the best light possible when out in the open. Her mask is really sliding off.
Have a wonderful New Year’s Eve with your children.
DnJ
Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.