W was mad about me not telling her taking kids to the city.
I just listen and W says "are you listening " I replied Yes and am sorry you feel that way but that was A family event I did with our kids. It was my week If I take kids out of state Yes I must tell you but Me going downtown I don't.
W then proceed to say I want this to work 2nd time W has said that. I then said yes coparenting is very important to me. W silent
Today at pickup W made a favorite dish of mines W said I pack you dinner. I said thank you W looked exhausted, tired, Sad. W said how are you I said ok thank you for asking.
W ok, I stood there in passenger side door. I then said Ok trio's are We buckled up, Trios yes mommy. W ok M bye very sad look
What's interesting is OW friends and family at house Trios said A whole bunch of people like they about to have a party. W look like a mess. Like W didn't even want to leave.
I am not trying not to over think anything about it But I can tell you W honeymoon stage are over. I can tell.
I wonder is it finally sinking in. W won't have kids till New Year's day after 3pm.
So sad to see someone full of life gone.
You would think New car W would be ecstatic.
Trios said W was mood. D10 said she doesn't like W I just listen and validated and said I am sorry you feel this Way. D10 said I just need a hug from you mommy.
Boys are just over W. There words W is same old same old.
I hope everyone has a great New Year's
At BD Lesbian marriage Me39,W36 S9,D9,S8 adopted all three Together almost 10yrs Bomb Drop - April 2017 W movedout - May,2017 OW June,2017 Currently 2018 Me40, W38 S10,D10,S9
Yes I believe dogs are guardians angel I believe Apollo came in right on time for us Thank you
DnJ Thank you. Yes Apollo name fits right with him
I hope everyone has a beautiful New Year's And may next year bring more for us LBS
At BD Lesbian marriage Me39,W36 S9,D9,S8 adopted all three Together almost 10yrs Bomb Drop - April 2017 W movedout - May,2017 OW June,2017 Currently 2018 Me40, W38 S10,D10,S9
You did an excellent job in responding to W. You stayed calm and cool throughout the conversation. She had no reason to get angry and yes, it sounds like the honeymoon stage is over.
How are you and the children adjusting to have a dog in the home? Apollo is a perfect name for him.
You are doing great. Keep up the good work.
Happy New Year to you and your family!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
Your W does sound like she is a mess, and the honeymoon stage is probably winding down and gasping it’s last breath.
I wonder how bad it actually is, I am thinking it is pretty bad. The MLCer usually projects themselves to be in the best light possible when out in the open. Her mask is really sliding off.
Have a wonderful New Year’s Eve with your children.
DnJ
Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.
I think You w is also wondering who has Marine become
this strong woman who does not stray from the path even under stormy conditions who does not crumble at wifes tantrums
and yes the honeymoon stage will always end and then there is NO bandaid for the pain and oh so much pain the mLCer is in
Not only did they hurt the LBS, abandoned the kids and all financial responsibility Just think when they get a moment of clarity of their true feelings and a real glimpse at their continued unhappiness
that's why I think many resort to drugs especially when OW cant mask the pain anymore for them
You are doing great stick to your current agenda it is working-
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow
Thank you, how are trio's adjusting to Apollo Words cannot even describe it, he has brighten our life even mines, am not alone anymore the Trios can't get enough of his kisses.
Is like having a New baby in the house lol
W did meet Apollo W stated You must be crazy getting a dog, ain't 3 kids enough I replied never I want couple more kids and dogs.
And W knows that was an honest reply. I always wanted To adopt more kids, once trio's get older. And I always had dogs
So Apollo is amazing.
DnJ,
I also wonder how is going from Trios, OW tells W what to do, something I never did Even s10 said oh boy they fight a lot. I wanted to ask s10 questions but I just listen
I only ask where you at. S10 in my room watching TV I responded good always stay away from grown ups Arguments and remember S10 soon you be home.
S10 smiles I know mommy Soon.
I must agree with Peacetoday W is wondering what is going on with M
I no longer allow W or anyone make me angry or unhappy I realized through this there is alot of unhappy people out Here. I basically stay clear.
Who knows W process or her thoughts one minute W is A monster one minute it feels like W is asking permission And the next W cares how am feeling.
I could tell the last 2 weeks W tried to get me mad but I was Just cool.
Is interesting that they had over 20 plus people at the house Yesterday and W looked like a mess and wanted to talk. W and OW was having a party but W was not dress or even Happy or In a rush to get back. I had to initiate ok we gotta go.
So who knows I know there's lot of liquor Trios said So I am glad Trios are not there and remember W offered is like W knew it would not be a good idea for Trios to be There and I am thankful to W for that. I would have been a mess If I knew Trio's where over W house.
I wonder if W will call trio's at midnight tomorrow evening I will See. Remember last year W had s10 so this is W real holiday without Kids. And I honestly think it's hitting W like a semitruck.
Everyone have a safe New Year's. Trio's and I will be in our Jammies and Apollo.
R said she will come over tonight I said Ok.
So we be watching Movies till countdown and trio's Will be popping there grape welch juice which they Are super excited.
At BD Lesbian marriage Me39,W36 S9,D9,S8 adopted all three Together almost 10yrs Bomb Drop - April 2017 W movedout - May,2017 OW June,2017 Currently 2018 Me40, W38 S10,D10,S9
Today W got trio's till Friday evening W Was suppose to have them till Sunday because I had trio's on Christmas day and that whole week W changed plan said till Friday I simply said OK
Trios gave me big hug and kiss and said We love you mommy
W was standing there I went to hand over some goodies and Left over from yesterday W says No New Year's kiss for me And then explained I didn't do nothing yesterday I was in Bed by 12:45am.
I just smirked and explained to W what I pack for them.
I stood calm. I drove off W was still in New car just looking at me
I won't lie I was frozen last year W was to deep in her tunnel I can see W testing or cake eating but I am not falling for that
W has seen a change on me. I think what W sees is I lost Marina,
Who knows what W thoughts are.
Trios and I did the New York count down but we still Had an hour after that. Trio's where fighting there sleep
But I bet who was going fall asleep first. Trio's where in low Fumes they where dancing until s9 crashed in my arms lol
By midnight they waited till count down we did a group hug And was in bed.
Trio's ask mommy what is like your resolution I responded to keep letting God guide Me so I can guide you 3and being a better version of myself.
And keep being here for you Trios always.
At BD Lesbian marriage Me39,W36 S9,D9,S8 adopted all three Together almost 10yrs Bomb Drop - April 2017 W movedout - May,2017 OW June,2017 Currently 2018 Me40, W38 S10,D10,S9
