Oops, guess I'd better pull myself up from page three with a little anecdote:
Last week my H was getting the female equivalent of obscene phone calls on his cell phone. He seldom gives out his cell phone number, so when he got the first call, he assumed it must be some business aquaintance. A woman said hello, and started talking to him. He couldn't place her, so he thought maybe it was just some work contact that he didn't recognize. Then she started in on how sexy his voice was. Well, he got off the phone in a hurry, and she called back! The caller ID just said unidentified caller, so he started letting it go to voice mail - well, she called over and over again, never leaving a voice mail (probably just listening to his "sexy voice" on the message).
H came home that night and told me all about it, didn't really have a clue who it could be. The phone rang several times that evening, he just let it go to voice mail.
Finally I said "give me that phone" and answered the next call - I just said "Why are you calling and bothering my HUSBAND?". H was afraid it would just egg them on, but nope- worked like a charm - no calls since
(BTW - I am not suspicious at all about the calls - ex-OW would never have this number, we got new phones and didn't transfer our old numbers. H does a lot of public speaking, and has had the occasional over-enthusiastic "fan" in the past. I suspect some woman who saw him speak finagled his phone number out of someone!)
